Beauty.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
The quote that has had some truth for many years. It is fact that you see yourself four times more beautiful then you actually are. What truth is in that fact? You are as beautiful as you feel no matter what shape or size. I recently went to a Mary Kay party and the host of the party talked about how we as woman need to keep up appearances and that the way we present our faces, Is key to making a good impression Nine times out of ten someone remembers you from your face not the clothes you wore or the way you had your hair but how you compose your face.

Is all that true or is the woman simplying trying to reel us in to buying her products. Which is probably true. Make up or no makeup everyone is beautiful in their own ways. there are some of us woman need a little extra help hiding our blemishes or looking "camera ready" whatever that means. then there are some of us who wake up without a blemish on their face.

We were all made with our own differences for a reason, like moles, freckles, dark spots. Listen up society imperfections are beautiful. Get over the fact that there is no perfection in this world and that true beauty comes from within, not from how we present ourselves.

Young mother's

Being a young mother can be hard, Pregnancy is almost always unexpected. There are times that a mother can step up and take on  their "new life" to go from a teenage with high hopes and inhibitions to a new baby and new responsibilities.

It is one of the most life changing experiences anyone could experience. Being a mom of a almost two year old I can say that I know exactly what it's like. At first it's a struggle, but it gets easier for most but then there are those mothers that want to stay in the "I'm an adult and want to party" stage.
Where they claim to be the best mother and that they provide for their children. When in all reality they are out partying with friends while their babies are stuck with a sitter or a family member that stepped up to help. Trust me I've seen my share of these "mom's" I'm not here to bash, because there are instances where a mother is not able to be there for their children. Circumstances happen.
I want to bring up the issue of No matter what all kids deserve their parents whether mother or father. A child should always be put in a healthy environment with stability and guidance. As they grow they explore everything and start to be come independent they need routine. I've read article after article about how children need structure. I agree, If there is no struggle, a child might grow up thinking that things aren't actually as they seam and maybe even have a lot of emotional issues in the future. The first few years of a child's life is the most important after all.

Anyway, No matter what children are a blessing, They are the future of this world just like my generation was at one point. We need heirs to survive, How else would technology and new discoveries progress if there's no one here to continue what was started years ago. 
Be kind to others and child. They are the future and the blessings that come in all shape and sizes.

Thank you.

New Beginnings.

I know that all of us seek a fresh start to redo the things that we wish we hadn't.
But can we escape the past and seek the light in the future ahead of us?

I believe so, You're life is placed in your hands to do as you wish with it, Many seek wealth and poessions. As most of us struggle to get by hoping to have a roof placed above our heads. Only you can choose how to live and strive for the person that you so long to be. Life is an Never ending battle one that there is an ongoing fight with day in and day out, We all struggle for just a second of peace.
One day were we can lay in leisure and forgot about the things that turn our hairs gray.

But can we really end the stress, If we fight for a better future not only for us but for our child. Then we maybe able to take a step back and breathe, Because you knew that you made a difference and you changed the world for the better in all of us. In my previous post I mentioned one step at a time can make the world a better place and it can.

You don't have to listen to me, I am only a human trying to make it in this world as well. With the things that I have seen and witnessed in this world I am but sick as I see it falling to pieces around us.

No, I'm not a peace keeper or a hippy none the less but I care how this future world will end up. and I'm so tired of seeing us all have the opportunity to change it but we hide inside a shell and pray that someone else will come along and do it for us. It takes more than one to stand up for a well cause.

Consider what I say and think about this, Next time you see something that you have the ability to change, Do it. Don't shy away and let it turn worse stand up and change the outcome.

Making Changes.

I'm starting this blog to allow others to see the world through a different perspective, To open your eyes to new concepts and Ideas.

In the world around us there are a lot of things that make us question our own abilities and beliefs. The world will forever change, Whether to strengthen into a tighter community or weaken and crumble under are feet and war and strife as the result. I believe that we can change this simple small gestures, Like being nice to one another, Giving to those less fortunate than us that can truly use a helping hand. and so on. The small things that we do today can impact the world and the people in it, Hopefully in a positive way. We can all use a smile once in a while or even a hand to help us on our feet when we have fallen.

No, I am not an activist willing to die for the cause, I am merely a human someone who wants to see kindness and love spread throughout all of us and the next generations after us. This is our home and we should be trying to welcome it, Not push it away until it's dying out. I for one don't want my children growing up in a world where being Rude is okay and fighting is a way to solve a problem. I am an old fashioned woman and I am not ashamed to stand up to what I believe.

I am angry though. at the things I have heard all around me, The things that I have seen. Kinds 10 and younger, Needing boyfriends and the latest I phone's. Now I'm not saying that all parents condone this but there are some out there that give their children these things so they can fit in to this new trend. 

I know that as a mother myself that I am not impressed,  We should be teaching our youth to have class, Manners and to be who they want to be. Not follow the trends of others. Some can say that I am outraged by this and in fact I am.

But I will not dwindle on this subject,

If you read this Blog and are interested in making a difference, With me. Feel free to post a comment and we can share ideas.