Friday, November 13, 2015

Beauty.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
The quote that has had some truth for many years. It is fact that you see yourself four times more beautiful then you actually are. What truth is in that fact? You are as beautiful as you feel no matter what shape or size. I recently went to a Mary Kay party and the host of the party talked about how we as woman need to keep up appearances and that the way we present our faces, Is key to making a good impression Nine times out of ten someone remembers you from your face not the clothes you wore or the way you had your hair but how you compose your face.

Is all that true or is the woman simplying trying to reel us in to buying her products. Which is probably true. Make up or no makeup everyone is beautiful in their own ways. there are some of us woman need a little extra help hiding our blemishes or looking "camera ready" whatever that means. then there are some of us who wake up without a blemish on their face.

We were all made with our own differences for a reason, like moles, freckles, dark spots. Listen up society imperfections are beautiful. Get over the fact that there is no perfection in this world and that true beauty comes from within, not from how we present ourselves.

Thursday, November 12, 2015

Young mother's

Being a young mother can be hard, Pregnancy is almost always unexpected. There are times that a mother can step up and take on  their "new life" to go from a teenage with high hopes and inhibitions to a new baby and new responsibilities.

It is one of the most life changing experiences anyone could experience. Being a mom of a almost two year old I can say that I know exactly what it's like. At first it's a struggle, but it gets easier for most but then there are those mothers that want to stay in the "I'm an adult and want to party" stage.
Where they claim to be the best mother and that they provide for their children. When in all reality they are out partying with friends while their babies are stuck with a sitter or a family member that stepped up to help. Trust me I've seen my share of these "mom's" I'm not here to bash, because there are instances where a mother is not able to be there for their children. Circumstances happen.
I want to bring up the issue of No matter what all kids deserve their parents whether mother or father. A child should always be put in a healthy environment with stability and guidance. As they grow they explore everything and start to be come independent they need routine. I've read article after article about how children need structure. I agree, If there is no struggle, a child might grow up thinking that things aren't actually as they seam and maybe even have a lot of emotional issues in the future. The first few years of a child's life is the most important after all.

Anyway, No matter what children are a blessing, They are the future of this world just like my generation was at one point. We need heirs to survive, How else would technology and new discoveries progress if there's no one here to continue what was started years ago. 
Be kind to others and child. They are the future and the blessings that come in all shape and sizes.

Thank you.

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